Flowers, music, planners, catering, (and even cake) are all great things to have on your wedding day. However, the importance of these items rank last on the list when we begin to talk about the legalities and longevity of your marriage.
Let's put things into perspective, legally, none of the above mentioned items are needed to marry a couple. However, an ordained minister or legally appointed officiant is among the short list of "must-haves " when it comes to becoming someones' real-life husband or wife.
Most pastor's or wedding officiants tend to spend valuable time in pre-marital counsel with couples before the wedding. The information and advice you receive during this private time is bound to positively shape your life and relationship beyond the scope of the aforementioned items.
Yes, many wedding officiants and pastor's are good natured people who put the needs of others above their own, just remember that their time and professional experience should be respected as much as your other wedding vendors.
While many will not charge you a dime for officiating your ceremony, a generous donation in the amount of 10% of the cost of your reception venue or a $250 minimum should be provided. While it may seem like a lot, just remember that anyone may kiss the bride, but only the officiant can pronounce her a wife.
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